Sunday, January 10, 2010

New Year New Beginnings

Let me first start off by saying how much I hate New Year's Resolutions.  I have yet to meet anyone that has ever kept one! If you have I would love to hear about it...

So far this year has gotten off to a great start.  I know a lot of people were ready to see 2009 disappear. For us, 2009 was one of our best years.  There are the obvious reason....EVIE.  But we also feel like things began to come together for us.  When Enzo first moved to the US we really struggled with him finding a job.  Finally, he resorted to working in a Chic-fil-a.  We laugh at the time he went in for his interview and he told them he had a college degree and spoke 3 (sometimes 4) languages.  He was out of place but it was where God had him.  We think it is a little ironic that Enzo was looking for a job when everyone else had one...now it is the opposite.  God's perfect timing provided when we needed it!
Now we are hoping for an exciting 2010..it should be filled with lots of things.  One of the main things we are excited about seeing happen is Enzo's mom coming to the states.  She has never traveled so it should be quite interesting!  She will be staying with us hopefully for about 3 months.  We are thinking she might arrive late summer/early fall but of course this all depends upon immigration.  It will be our first together Christmas all together!

 

Friday, December 25, 2009

Christmas Time!

I know, I know, I know... Everyone wants to talk about their baby's first Christmas and guess what... We are no exception!
Evie really enjoyed the paper, the boxes, people smiling, laughter (she loves to make a fake laugh when she hears people laughing), mommy being home more, becoming more independent, fun presents that she can hit and makes lots of noise, people holding her, and the list goes on...
Christmas with a kid is so much more fun. I know she doesn't understand Santa or how it is Jesus' birthday but she teaches us adults how to have faith like a child.




Thursday, December 24, 2009

Sean Goldman with David Goldman!

Sean is now with his Dad but his Brazilian family had to get in their last stab.  They paraded him in from of the cameras and people to try to prove a point.  They forgot they are dealing with a child.  Well at least from here on out he will be with his father.  There is probably a long road that needs to be mended between David and Sean but I am sure that with time that will happen.  





Here is the most recent update from bringseanhome.org


Wheels Up!
No real need for an update this morning, the news is all over the country. David and Sean have been reunited and are on their way back to the United States.
David Goldman, throughout this ordeal, has shown the world a man whose dignity, grace, love and fortitude can only be admired. Sean will soon realize that he was blessed to be born the son of such a man.
We wish we could personally thank the tens of thousands of people from around the world who helped make this happen. Without the efforts of every single supporter the reunion today would not have happened.
We hope you have a joyous Christmas and 2010 will be a wonderful new year of happiness, health and prosperity for you and our country.
Our work together at the Bring Sean Home Foundation is not over, we have just begun.

Robert D'Amico

Tuesday, December 22, 2009

BREAKING NEWS!!! SEAN GOLDMAN IS COMING HOME!!!

Click on the link above... Brazil better not appeal!!!! Give the boy to his Father!

Sean Goldman Update

Ok so I know it has been a while since I updated on the Sean Goldman case... honestly because not much has happened (unfortunately).  I have been waiting for something BIG to post (like a family being reunited).  How can something like this get so out of control?  My heart truly goes out to David and Sean.  Sean has no clue of the out pour of love his father has for him.  Persevere David!!!  Pray without seizing because you have a team of people who are doing the same.

Here is the latest on the case:


Important Update: "Begging for Justice"
20 December 2009

Dear Friends and Supporters,
It has been a momentous week for the Goldman case and it isn’t over yet. The story of David and Sean has been all over the news this week, since David won a unanimous decision at the Federal Regional Appeals Court in Rio de Janeiro which upheld the return order from June and directed that Sean be turned over to David within 48 hours. Secretary of State Hillary Clinton weighed in with a statement praising the decision, only to have this order suspended by yet another legal maneuver by the Lins e Silva and Ribeiro families, who submitted a writ of habeas corpus to the Supreme Court. That motion was accepted by the reporting judge on the case, Marco Aurélio de Mello, who stayed the return order the next day. This is the same judge, by the way, who single-handedly blocked the return back in June with another stay order.
The media has been closely the story, some doing a better job than others at detailing and explaining the facts, but all have made the fundamental connection that a father is being deprived of raising or even communicating with his son by a wealthy, politically connected family, with the assistance of one Supreme Court Justice. Everyone, Americans and especially Brazilians, know that this is an incredible injustice which cannot be left to stand.
It appears that public opinion in Brazil may have shifted with this week’s events, as many Brazilians are reacting negatively to the continued defiance of the rule of law by the families holding Sean, their attorneys, and one Supreme Court Justice who continues to thwart the lower court decisions which unanimously argue that Sean needs to go home immediately. Seth Kugel, a Brazilian based journalist forGlobalPost recently quoted an anonymous Brazilian following the case: “It’s impressive how the Lins e Silva family achieved an almost unheard of feat in this country: it united the great majority of the Brazilian population in favor of an American! Who would have thought?”
We are trying to maintain a "timeline summary" of events on the BringSeanHome.org Home page for those who cannot participate in our Forums. However we would like to direct your attention to a blog titledAdventures of a Gringa which is published by one of our earliest and hardest working supporters in Brazil and now in NYC, Rachel, also known as "Rio Gringa." We strongly urge you to read her story line of 12/18 titled House of Cards. She summarizes ALL the events of the week along with her candid reactions which are the same as thousands of other supporters. As you will read some real bombshells occurred both here in the U.S. and Brazil as result of the suspension of the return order by Justice Aurélio de Mello.
On Friday, as a direct result of the stay order, U.S. Senator Frank Lautenberg (NJ) put a "hold" on a bill now in the Senate, which grants several countries, including Brazil, the right to import products into the United States without paying import duties. Brazil alone received about $2.75 billion in benefits last year.
The Brazilian Attorney General stepped in on Friday and filed a writ of mandamus against the Supreme Court justice who blocked Sean's return. There is some hope that perhaps his stay order will be overturned soon. David's legal team has also filed a motion to reverse the stay order and we hope that the President of the Brazilian Supreme Court will take up both writs this week, quash the habeas corpus stay order and send Sean home once and for all.
It is vital that justice prevails and Sean is returned to his father, because there are nearly 70 abducted American children being held in Brazil and over 2,800 abducted American children around the world in similar situations No one has made a better presentation of the continuous failure of our federal government's effort to help America's abducted children than former Assistant Secretary of State for Latin American Affairs, Bernard Aronson. His presentation on December 2nd before the Lantos Human Rights Commission of the U.S. House of Representatives literally "brought the house down." Read it online here (Adobe PDF format).
Thank you for your continued support and our best wishes for a Happy and Healthy Holiday season. We ask that you keep David and Sean Goldman in your thoughts and prayers at this special time of the year. Let us pray for a Christmas miracle that finally brings David and Sean together again permanently.
Mark DeAngelis - Bob D'Amico - Christine Schmitt - Melissa Capestro - Jim Mastriani - Matt DeAngelis 
The Bring Sean Home Foundation
PS: Begging for Justice? Watch the video of David speaking to reporters outside his Rio hotel, where you will hear a father’s passionate plea to bring his son home. The video is on the BringSeanHome.orgHome page.

Saturday, December 19, 2009

Bath Time - 9 months

Evie is growing so fast!  She has started "cruisin'" around.  She still loves bath time!  Oh and don't worry...during these pictures I was standing right there in case she fell;).



Saturday, December 12, 2009

Crib Lowered

Evie, you are getting so big... now daddy had to lower your mattress so you wouldn't fall off the crib. Yes, a couple of days ago you were standing up holding the edge of it peeking over...

:)

Sunday, November 22, 2009

Evie's First Christmas - Countdown

It's not even Thanksgiving yet, but we are already looking forward to Christmas. Yesterday Paige started decorating the house while I put the Christmas tree up.

We are so excited Evie is here with us this year to celebrate her first Christmas! She brought a lot of "firsts" that bring joy to our lives: first cry, first night at home just the three of us, first smiles, first mumblings, first belly laughs, first dah-dah, dah-dee and mah-mah... and now the first time we celebrate Christ's birth together, as a family. I am now a first-time daddy and at times like these I know God is looking after me because He has given me a wonderful family to celebrate special moments with... for as long as I live... :)

It is also exciting to think that maybe next year my mom will also be here having the first good Christmas of her life.

Tuesday, November 10, 2009

Registered to Vote

Today I just got a letter that I am registered and I could possibly be a poll officer.

Monday, November 09, 2009

Halloween Day


My first Halloween started out a scary one on breathing treatments....





But I started to feel better with my "Daddycure."

Then I was happy!  I started posing in my Falcon's cheerleader outfit.


And then I couldn't be a cheerleader without cheering!  We went to Waffle House for a "scary" Halloween breakfast!







Mommy and Daddy also like to dress me up in other things..like a horsie.


Halloween night was fun too!  Mommy and I were a lady bug and a bumble bee!  Daddy dressed like some man named Uncle Sam.


Then some scary witch came to get this Lady Bug!

That Uncle Same saved me!

Uncle Same and I shared a Pumpkin.  Mommy and Daddy are also trying to teach me to share.


Why does Mommy always stare at me like I am pretty or something?


This is me out on my first night of trick or treating!


Guys it was so neat seeing all those bears, lady bugs, monsters, and kitty cats!















My friend Adam came along and made sure I crossed the street safely.

















When we got back home, the witch was gone and Grammie was there!  She was holding a sweet little thing.








Then that sweet little thing turned into a pea pod!


Mommy held the pea pod and I got a little jealous.


But I was okay because Granny Norton and Papa John held me!


Mommy also had a Deviled Egg and pretty model come visit.  I know they were there to see me!



Then I settled in for the night with my friend Adam to watch Mickey Mouse Clubhouse!


HAPPY HALLOQUEEN!

Wednesday, October 28, 2009

Finally an American!

Yesterday was the long awaited glorious day: I became a naturalized American citizen. Although I had always had an interest in the American culture, arts and first world society (I studied English in a self-taught basis for the most part), I can now officially say I am "proud to be an American."
I love this country, here is where I started my family when I got married to an amazing American woman (Paige) and had my daughter Evie, not to mention the additions to the family (my in-laws)! The U.S.A. is where God brought Paige and I together to live and constitute a family and it has been a great decision and privilege.

The foundations of this Nation are a compelling story...

I could go on an on... but here is how the crucial day went.

We got up early and got our Evie ready for the special occasion. We dropped at daycare and and went on to the USCIS office in Atlanta. The appointment was at 9:45 and we got there at 9:42, just in time for me to jump out of the car and go through security.

While Paige parked I went ahead and checked in on the second floor. She came and joined me later until my interview.

The interviewer called my name. She was a dark, skinny, friendly little girl probably around our age. I went back to the interview room after asking her if I could bring Paige back with me and she said I couldn't. Paige waited in the waiting room.

The interviewer asked to see my ID and birth certificate. I showed her both and said "I can't seem to find the photocopy" to which she replied "no problem, I found it in the pile here." Basically, they ask you to bring all docs just in case because they have all of them there anyway.
The next question was about my name and date of birth. I said "how American, huh? Enzo Silva." to which she replied "if you would like to change your name legally you can as part of this process, it would just slow down your naturalization a bit." I said "no, I don't even like Enzo anyway, will just keep it."

She then asked the routine questions like "have you been involved in any terrorist plots," etc. To which I always replied: "absolutely not". Then she asked me if I had been in any trips outside the U.S. after 2007 (the last trip I had listed on the form before submitting was Brazil in 11/2007), I said:
"Yes, we went to Brazil this summer."
"How long did you stay there?"
"2 weeks, out of which we got sick for 1 week". We had the 'swine flu'."
"Really? You're over it, right?" - smile.
"Oh yeah, don't worry about it, not passing it on to you". She smiled.

Then she asked me if I knew what the oath I was taking meant and I said "yes." She asked if I was open to defend the country and join the Military if necessary.

"Sure. I just don't know what they would use me for with only one ear." Laugh.
"Well, I am sure there is a lot of brain power in there that could be used." Smile.

She then asked if I lived in the same address. I said yes and repeated it as she was saying it as well. She also asked if I was still married and I said "yes, and I intend to stay that way..." Of course, she smiled.

I coughed and made the "smart" remark: "oops, not the swine flu." and she replied laughing: "good, I was already holding my breath here..."

Next thing she said for me to put my documents/folder aside so we could start the "test".
Mmmm... did I say it was easy? I lied: it was an insult to anyone's intelligence. 10 random questions, if you answer the first 6 correctly the interviewer will stop and you will NOT have to answer the others.
Here are the questions she asked:

  1. What is freedom of religion? Answer: you have the right to practice or not practice any religion. (Yep, I memorized this one verbatim).
  2. Name one state that borders Canada. (my answer was New York)
  3. When was the Constitution written? (my answer: 1876)

  4. When is it necessary to register for Selective Service? (my answer: males from 18 - 26 years of age)
  5. What ocean is on the East Coast? (my answer: mmmm... Atlantic)
  6. How many U.S. senators are there? (my answer: 100... 2 per state *smile*)


Then she put a sheet of paper on the desk in front of me and asked me to read the first sentence: "What do we pay to the government?"
I even said after reading it in immaculate English (just kidding): "well, we pay taxes, fees and more..." and smiled.

Funny enough, the "writing test" was for me to write the sentence she dictated: "we pay taxes."

That was IT!!!

I asked her if I could write down the questions. "I will have too many people asking me what questions were on my test. Is that against the rules?" She said no problem. Then as I started writing them down, I said my memory was bad (yes, tricky me). And she said: "hey, here, copy it from the test..." and handed me the test... ;)

Then she said: "I need your green card now. Say good-bye to it".

"Really? I wanted it as a souvenir!..." said face... and she smiles saying "yeah, we have to keep it".... Man, am I charming even in my naturalization interview... ;)

I asked her if she was born American herself and she said she was but her parents were from India. I knew I thought she looked like the girl from Slum Dog Millionaire!

Then she said, "congratulations, you passed the test, wait until they call you out there and give you the approval paper and then come back at 2 o'clock for the ceremony on the second floor. Don't forget to change your status to citizen at the Social Security office."

I got out of that room with a smile on my face and Paige was happy to see me. She then went downstairs because her parents had picked Evie up at daycare and had come to participate in the festivities. I thought I would be able to get out and have some lunch before the ceremony: wrong! I waited until around 1:30 for the approval paper! In the meantime, anxious, hungry and a tad mad, I talked to a Vietnamese lady whose daughter was going to interview as well... turns out she did NOT pass the test... probably nervous?

Anyways, I went on to the parking lot to see if my family was there, borrowed a cell phone to call Paige (mine was in the car) and went back upstairs when she didn't pick up the phone, knowing they would be in there anyway.
They then had to wait on the third floor while I was on the second floor, sitting in line talking to a guy from Liberia who didn't care enough to tell his family he was becoming an American citizen after 20 years of permanent residence... well..

The ceremony was really nice. We had a message from president Obama, videoclips with the song God Bless the USA in the background and, of course, the oath I was proud to take.

My family got front row seat since the Evie was a little baby.

And this is just one moment in the story of how I became and American citizen.

I already registered to vote.

Monday, October 26, 2009

Last night

Tonight is Enzo's last night of not being a US citizen.  Say a prayer for his test tomorrow!

Monday, October 19, 2009

Happy Birthday Jude!

Judah was welcomed into the world October 15, 2009.  This is a picture of my new little nephew with his Daddy!

Sunday, October 18, 2009

Growing and learning

So much has happened during Evie's 6th and 7th months of life!  Her Vovo Rosaria taught her how to clap over the internet.  Crawling also began with about a yard's length at a time.  She also can say "bye bye" and wave at the same time.  Grammie and Grandaddy have also taught her to through her arms in the air and yell "YAY"!

Love my Punkin!

Evie is sooooo ready for Halloween!  

The Little Pumpkin at Burt's

Ok so we realize we have become a little obsessed with the pictures but she is just too darn cute!  Here is from our trip to Burt's Pumpkin Farm.  We had fun even though it rained a little...It actually might have been better that we went this day anyways because when it isn't raining this place is packed out!
And here is one of the cutest things in the world that Evie has started doing.  She copies us when we do stuff now.  Whenever Enzo makes faces she tries to do it back...so smart;)